People hate to resign without another job lined up. Not just because employers prefer to hire people who are working, but also because it feels like failure. It seems as if you “couldn’t take it.” But there are times when it is very important to just let go.
All of us wanna grow as much as we could but you can't just simply rely your growth to the company that you're in.
Nowadays, PRACTICALITY is the new trend when it comes to looking/having a job. It's true that bills or money will always be the number one reason why we look and get a job but not just to buy the latest iphone and what not... And that is a fact.
Growth is not just determined with what skill you possess but we also have to consider your growth as a human being which you can't just acquire with the trainings and workshops that your company offers nor getting a career progression or internal mobility. And being a human is what really matters. I even knew and met some who are great when it comes to working as an employee as well as excelling on their career but at the end of the day they still feel not satisfied with what they're currently into, others are great employees but when it comes to personality its a big NO. Challenge? C'mmon, everyday living is already a challenge so as you go to work. Even you've got the same routine day in and day out; you are still being challenged.
I'd rather say that before leaving your job, SEEK do not just look but SEEK for your SELF MOTIVATION(as this is the primary reason why your losing your interest to continue working); why you're still working as hard as you could even though you feel like quitting.
Motivation that comes within yourself and not from anything nor anyone else. Secondly, be matured enough and be a keen observer. These two would help you decide whether to stay or leave as they will at least help you to consider and perceive things that might/can happen in the future for what ever the decision you'll make. Be more observant to your friends, acquintances, colleagues, etc... especially on things they do whether he/she is employed , underemployed or even unemployed. Learn from their success and mistakes which could help you realize the best thing/s you can do and how to work on your opportunities as an employee and as a person.
Lastly and the most common advise we get from our mentors or someone whom we consider as advisers is that, you have to make sure that before you leave your current job you are certain and determined to take your new "uncertain journey" and the consequences that's on your way by choosing it.
In addition, always look for a company who offers more time for your self, family and friends; a light working environment; a great compensation and benefits(of course).
As the famous millenial expression says YOLO(You Only Live Once) make everyday of your life memorable NOT miserable.
Don't stress too much of your time at work and thinking if you still get growth from it or not as your working environment is not just the place where you can find growth. We all deserve a better and convenient life. Work positively and continue earning rewards from your hardworks!
There are two times when you should consider resigning even if you don’t have another job line up:
When you believe something illegal or unethical is going on at work and you are concerned it will reflect badly on you
When your current job is negatively affecting your health and your life outside of work
Before you quit, however, you need to put together a plan that includes when and how you are going to resign, whom you are going to use as references, and, most importantly, what you are going to say about why you are resigning.
it's OK to disappoint others, you're in the driver's seat of your life. No one else knows what's best for you but you—not your parents, your grandparents, your spouse, your best friend, or your mentor.
If you make a choice to please others before you please yourself when it comes to your choices regarding work, you may grow to resent those people in the long run.
Also, you're the one that has to get yourself through each day, and no one else can or will do it for you, even if they think they can. If you know that your choice of quitting your job is the best choice for you, and trust that in the long run, others will see it too.
If and when you do decide to leave your job, do so as gracefully as possible as not to burn bridges if you can help it. It's a small world, and people remember those who handle things in a respectful and appreciative manner.
It can be interesting to go against the grain. It can also be tough to admit you're not happy when you have a good paying job (or a job at all depending on the current economy), food on the table, and a roof over your head. Heck, you might even like your co-workers.
But something still might not feel right to you. It might take you some time, but eventually, you know you need to listen to that little voice that's telling you that you need to make some changes in your life, and it might need to start with your job and career choice. If that means quitting your job, current position, or current workgroup, it's OK for you to make the plans to do so. It's OK for you to make choices that will bring fulfillment to your work and life, and the fact is, you're the only one that can choose do it for yourself.
This quote comes from Osayi Emokpae Lasisi.
“Quitting is not giving up, it’s choosing to focus your attention on something more important. Quitting is not losing confidence, it’s realizing that there are more valuable ways you can spend your time. Quitting is not making excuses, it’s learning to be more productive, efficient and effective instead. Quitting is letting go of things (or people) that are sucking the life out of you so you can do more things that will bring you strength.”
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